15+ Life-Changing Books on Confidence, Manifestation, Mindset, and Overcoming Overthinking

Whats on your Nightstand —Spill It !

I wanna know—what book are you absolutely obsessed with right now? The one you can’t put down, the one that’s changing your life, or even the one just sitting there while you scroll your phone (no judgment). Tell me what you’re reading!

So, you’ve been scrolling endlessly, overthinking everything and anything—and now you’re ready to do something about it. We all know you’ve been saying you’re “manifesting” for years, but let’s be real: you haven’t seen much movement.

Want to stop letting fear hold you back, start believing you deserve success, and finally see your life transform? Yeah? Thought so.

These books? They’re the ones you need. We’ve pulled together the best of the best, the ones that will actually help you build unshakable confidence, get your mindset straight, manifest all your dreams, and—oh yeah—stop apologizing for existing.

Grab your notebook, because here we go. These books? They’re life-changers.

1. The High 5 Habit – Mel Robbins

The minute you get this book, you’re going to be high-fiving yourself in the mirror every single day. Sounds cheesy? Yeah, but it works. And if you’re the kind of person who tends to drag themselves down all the time, this is exactly what you need to start kicking ass.

2. You Are a Badass – Jen Sincero

If your confidence is more of a “I’m fine” and less of a “Hell yes, I’m amazing,” Jen’s here to drag you out of your funk. This book will get you to stop playing small and finally start living like you actually believe you deserve all the success you want.

3. You Are a Badass at Making Money – Jen Sincero

Money blocks? Pffft, let’s destroy them. This book gives you the tools to make money, but more importantly, it helps you realize that you deserve it. If you want to be rich in mindset (and cash), this book is your guide to breaking through the money BS.

4. Atomic Habits – James Clear

Manifesting won’t do squat if your habits are trash. This book is all about building tiny habits that compound into major results. Think about it: little changes = big results. Let’s get to work.

5. The Magic – Rhonda Byrne

Gratitude is a manifestation game-changer, and Rhonda lays it all out. 28 days of gratitude exercises that will shift your vibe and bring your desires closer. You don’t need to wait for a “sign,” this is the sign you’ve been looking for.

6. Manifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best Life – Roxie Nafousi

Sick of seeing other people manifesting their dream life while you’re over here still wondering why nothing’s working for you? This book gives you the seven steps to get your mindset aligned with abundance and make your dreams a reality.

7. The Power of Now – Eckhart Tolle

If you’re an overthinker who’s constantly living in your head and missing out on life, this is the book that’ll get you to snap out of it. It’s a little heavy but trust me, the mental clarity you’ll get from this is 100% worth it.

8. The Mountain Is You – Brianna Wiest

Self-sabotage is your middle name, and you know it. Brianna gets deep into the why behind your self-sabotaging tendencies and how to finally stop getting in your own way. It’s time to stop creating your own roadblocks.

9. Worthy – Jamie Kern Lima

Let’s be real—if you don’t feel worthy of the good stuff in life, you’re gonna keep getting in your own way. This book shows you how to break through the stories you’ve been telling yourself about “not enough.” Spoiler: you’re more than enough.

10. Think Like a Monk – Jay Shetty

If your brain is always running 100mph, this book will show you how to train your mind to calm down, focus, and actually enjoy life. Bonus: Jay’s wisdom isn’t just for monks. This stuff applies to everyone.

11. Boundaries – Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

If you’re the type of person who can’t say “no” or always feels drained by people, it’s time to set some boundaries. This book will teach you how to protect your energy and actually own your space.

12. 12 Rules for Life – Jordan Peterson

This one’s a little more “tough love,” but if you want to take full responsibility for your life and stop making excuses, this book is fire. It’s not for the faint of heart, but you’ll come out of it stronger.

13. E-Squared – Pam Grout

Still skeptical about manifestation? You won’t be after you try Pam’s nine energy experiments. Seriously, just try them, and watch as your mind opens up to the possibility that you can manifest your dream life.

14. Imperfection – Brené Brown

You don’t have to be perfect to be worthy of success, love, or anything else you want in life. Brené Brown is here to teach you how vulnerability and imperfection are actually your secret weapons. You’re not a robot, you’re human—and that’s more than enough.

15. The Last Law of Attraction Book You’ll Ever Need – Andrew Kap

Still not convinced manifestation works? This is the book that proves it’s not just woo-woo nonsense. Get ready for a step-by-step guide that’ll have you manifesting the life you want—no questions asked.

16. The Confidence Code – Katty Kay & Claire Shipman

Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build. If you want to stop second-guessing yourself and finally take action, this book will give you the tools to develop rock-solid confidence.

17. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life – Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Sex life feeling a little “meh”? This book will transform how you view your sexuality, your body, and your pleasure. It’s all about understanding your body’s needs and feeling confident in your own skin. Oh, and yes—this one will definitely help you in the bedroom.

18. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck – Mark Manson

It’s time to stop caring about everything and everyone. This book is for anyone who’s been stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing or caring too much about the opinions of others. Spoiler: it’s okay to not care.

thought patterns, this book will free you.

19. The Art of Happiness – Dalai Lama

Want to learn how to be genuinely happy no matter what’s going on around you? The Dalai Lama’s wisdom on cultivating peace and joy in everyday life is like a warm hug for your soul.

20 . The Let Them Theory – Mel Robbins

.If you’ve ever felt stuck, people-pleasing, or overly concerned with what others think of you, Let Them will show you how to stop caring about the wrong things and start caring about what truly matters: you. If you're ready to embrace your full potential, get ready to break free and unapologetically live life by your rules.

Which one are you picking up first?

So, there you go—15+ books that will totally change your mindset, manifest your dreams, and make you stop apologizing for being amazing. Trust me, these are the books you need in your life.

Click the book title to grab your copy on Amazon.

And hey, I’ll be talking about a few of these on the podcast too, so don’t miss out on those episodes!

xoxo